My mother started the add-a-pearl natural necklace for Amanda when she was baptized in August, 1997. She bought pearls for birthdays and Christmas until she passed in February, 2002.

Seeing as pearl is the birthstone of June, the timing is right to highlight a precious gem whose lore, beauty, and mystique has been prized as far back as 2206 BC. During Ancient Roman times, Julius Caesar was fascinated with natural pearls. Being that they were associated with the goddess of love, Venue, Caesar would gift pearls to his favorite mistresses. At the height of the Roman Empire, when the pearl obsession reached its peak, the noted Roman historian writer Suetonius expressed that the Roman general Vitellius financed an entire military campaign by selling just one of his mother’s pearl earrings.

With proper care, your Add-A-Pearl necklace will last a lifetime. Pearls are delicate gems and need special attention to maintain their beauty and luster.

Keep dry

Always remove your pearls before swimming or showering. Pearls are strung on silk thread which can weaken when submerged in water. If the silk weakens, the strand can break causing loss of pearls or damage to your valuable necklace. It’s advisable to remove your necklace before going to bed or participating in sports.

Separate from diamonds and gold

Pearls are soft gems and should be stored separately away from other gemstones and jewelry. Harder gems and metals can scratch the pearls’ surface causing damage to their sensitive skins. We suggest you store your necklace in its original box or in a chamois cloth to protect it from contact with other jewelry items. To maintain their beauty and luster, pearls need to breathe. Never keep them in an airtight container or sealed in a bank safety box for extended periods of time. The dryness will cause pearls to become dry and possibly cracked. Pearls love to be worn and the human body provides just the right amount of moisture to keep your pearls in perfect condition.

Last on first off

Pearl experts coined the phrase “last on, first off’ meaning you should put your pearls on last, after getting dressed, after using perfume, lotion or hair products and remove your pearls first before changing your clothes or going to bed. That way, you can avoid the chance of tugging on your necklace and accidentally breaking it.

Avoid chemicals

You should always keep pearls away from household products, chemicals or perfumes and lotions which can erode the sensitive skins on your pearls. Cleaning products containing ammonia and chlorine can be especially harmful to pearls causing them to be permanently damaged. Avoid wearing pearls while cleaning, cooking or gardening.

Use good judgement

One final bit of advice, is to simply use good judgement while wearing your pearls. You be the best judge of the right age of your little girl’s readiness and maturity to care for her necklace. If your little girl has an Add-A-Pearl necklace she loves to wear, we know she’ll want to show it off at school, but the playground and gym class can wreak havoc on her necklace and increase the possibility of loss.  We strongly suggest having her wear it only on special occasions until she’s old enough to understand the inherent value in fine jewelry so she can cherish it for a lifetime!

Add-A-Pearl is a way to create a complete strand of pearls over a period of time. The original gift is usually a single pearl necklace presented to a baby or young girl with one or more pearls on a 14-kt gold chain. Through the years, pearls can be added whenever friends and family wish to make an addition until the necklace becomes either a full strand of pearls or until the preferred number of pearls or look is achieved, perhaps at 16 or 22 pearls symbolizing a sweet 16 or college graduation. Most often, pearls are given for birthdays and at holiday time. Valentine’s Day, Easter, confirmation, graduation and other special milestones offer ideal opportunities to add pearls.

It’s not often where you get to say what was trending for your Grandma was also trending for your mother and for yourself. One of the best things about pearls are that they are a timeless piece of jewelry that never go out of style. The idea of tradition is embedded into the accessory and can be honored at your own wedding. The versatility of pearl strands is endless. Whether it serves as something new, old, or borrowed, pearls are the simple and perfect staple for your bridal wear.

In June of 2017, I found out we were expecting another baby. Unfortunately, in February of this year, we received the devastating news that her heart had quit beating at 39 weeks and 4 days, just 3 days before my due date. This loss has been heartbreaking in so many ways and we have purchased a pearl for our living daughter, from her baby sister. Albeit an incredibly sad memory, she is a very proud big sister and we wanted to include her in her precious necklace. At 3 Years Old, she doesn’t understand the significance of the loss or of the necklace, but I know that when she is older, she will cherish each of those pearls... especially the one from her little sister." written by: Lindsey Risdon Bales

My daughter was very ill with anemia in 2006 at 10 years old and no one seemed to know what was going on.  In January of 2007, right after she had turned 11 she was so weak at school that the nurse called for me to pick her up. I called her doctor and he sent us to Brenner’a Childen’s Hospital near our home. After several days of testing, about a week in hospital and a couple pints of blood the doctors told us that she had a form of cancer called GIST or gastrointestinal stromal tumors, very rare in children.  On February 15, 2007 she had 1/2 of her stomach and her duodenum removed.  We knew we wanted to celebrate this day much like we would a birthday so I tried a few small gifts but wanted something she could have forever. To celebrate her being cancer free we decided to add a pearl to her necklace each year on Feb. 15.  This year marked 12 years cancer free!

I order a new pearl for my daughter's necklace each year as a cancer free anniversary gift.  Hopefully this will go on for a very very long time.

written by Angela Hines, Statesville, NC

 

Pearls are often correlated with royalty, but it is not just the royal who wear pearls when they are out in public. Anytime Queen Elizabeth steps out in public she is seen wearing pearls in some fashion. She typically wears a three-strand pearl necklace, but is also commonly seen wearing pearls on her clothing, pearl bracelets and everything in between. But, pearls are also worn in the United Kingdom to distinguish oneself for a good cause. In the 1870s, an orphan street sweeper named Henry Croft spent his days collecting money for charitable missions such as orphanages and hospitals. In an effort to raise the most amount of money possible, Croft decided to wear a suit covered in pearls. Croft thought if he wore flashy or unique clothes he could draw attention, and people who would come talk to him would be likely to donate their money

Celebrities are constantly in the public’s eye, and many people consider them the face of fashion. Many celebrities push the fashion envelope, setting trends and even bringing back old trends. In recent months an old trend has resurfaced with much thanks to the rich and famous. If you follow any celebrities on social media or through the press, you have surely noticed that moms are dressing their daughters to match them and posting pictures of their twinning outfits online. Some people are jumping on board with this mommy-and-me trend, and some are put off by it. Let us break it down for you, and then, you decide.

(shutterstock image)

Although they may look a lot alike and both are white metals, white gold and silver are two different types of metals. Each metal has its own benefits and drawbacks.